Experience is the Best Teacher

I found dating gurus all over yahoo and google.com. I� �ve cooking a lot of dating rituals that will serve my way to romance. I was surfing the net with the keyword � �dating� � when www.adultdatingpost.com came in and lured my attention. If you want an airstrip to land with a girlfriend here is an article that will surely send you to the outer space of love.

You are probably wondering why up until now you� �re still unable to land yourself a girlfriend. So you decide to do something about it. You spend hours and hours in front of the computer scouring for dating advices targeted for the single modern man. You make a list of everything you need to know. And here� �s what you find out:

You find out that there is a multitude of ways when it comes to dating these days. You are now given the option of online dating. Online dating sites are prevalent so you research on what the best online dating service is. You decide to try free online dating sites first. Okay check!

Women don� �t like nice guys. You find out that they get turned off when you try to appease them too much. They want men to be leaders not wusses. They like men who are assertive and self-secured. You now understand that this is the reason why they are attracted to those good for nothing jerks. Those guys who you were previously curious about because they always seem to have a nice woman around their arms even though they treat the girls like crap. So you decide to emulate them. Check!

You also find out how you can successfully get women� �s phone numbers. The key to getting digits is to not seem threatening. Women usually have their guard up if you approach them with the intention of picking them up. So you� �re told that you must approach them casually and laid back. You must use icebreakers but never pick up lines. You were also advised to come prepared. Be sure to carry a pen and paper with you in all times it said. So now you walk around with an expensive planner and a sheek pen always ready in your pack. Check!

You also know where to ideally look for women. You were advised not to resort to bars and clubs if you want to pick up women. You now know that competition there is fierce and the chances for success are slim. If you want to go to bars and clubs, it should be with buddies. The article said that you� �re just setting yourself up for major disappointment. It recommends parks, supermarkets, bookstores and coffeehouses instead where women have their bitch guard down. So you avoid bars and clubs and head for the parks instead. Check!

You also know how important first dates are and how crucial it is for you to not screw it up. So you dress up properly and you amp up your style. You know that you have to be the one in control during the date, you� �re the one who� �s supposed to decide where to go, what to eat. Women are supposedly attracted to that. You must also remember to steer the conversation properly. Make it about the woman and as little as possible about you. You were also told that you must be the one to end the date as further display of control. Got it!

You even know what to do and how to act after the first date! Your resources tell you that you should act all mysterious and enigmatic. You don� �t want to reveal too much of yourself so you could keep the woman� �s interest in you. You want to keep her wanting for more. You must wait at least four days before calling her and not overnight or as soon as you get home, the article suggested. You don� �t want to look like someone desperate for attention nor do you want to tell her that you don� �t have your own life. So, one Mr. mysterious coming up!

So do all of these immediately translate to success? Well not really. These advices will certainly help you a lot, that I� �m sure of. But it doesn� �t guarantee success. Sometimes you may even see contradictory advices because no matter how much we want it, there is no ultimate foolproof method for approaching all of the different kinds of women out there. Sometimes even the most suave technique may fail.

But the thing that you should remember is to never give up. Failure is part of the dating game. If you don� �t succeed the first time, then try again until you do. Don� �t be afraid to go out there even if you already got rejected once. Any technique you try will eventually pay off. You could try variations of different methods and maneuvers but in the end, experience will still be the best teacher.