January 7th, 2009 by jane
well pretty much i was going to ask hre out because i really like her and she really likes me. I was going to after our 3 hour bus ride back from a band thing. She always sits with me on the bus. And she dicided to sit with this ryan dude, and she was going to move back but honestly i have been a bit suspiciouse that she likes him too. Well pretty much by the end of the bus ride she was asleep on his shoulder with his arm around her. I would have asked her out a while ago but hr best friend/cousin said that she to take it slower and to wait a bit. (which is what sarah said to her)
Ryans kind of a goofy kinda guy but i think he knew what he was doing.
Do i tell her i am upset or do i try to win her back or what?
I am tired of always being plan b but she is saying that she really regrets friday (not to me, but on her status on fb) But i tried talking to her about it and she said, why would yo be upset with me (not snoty sounding)
What do i tell her? Do i try to win her back?
i don't know if she likes ryan or me now.
text her and ask her who she likes! :)well if she does like you, she's just trying to make you jealous, we are like that, we want our guy to fight for us. BUT dont tell her you're upset about her sitting with ryan, after al you guys are not boyfriend and girlfriend so on the meanwhile she has the right to sit with whoever she wants to sit, ask her out on a date. go on the bus before her and save her a place. when she gets there let her know that you saved her a place, its a god way of letting her know that you want her to sith with you and not with ryan, and a good way of letting her know that you like her in case she doesnt have it clear. call her, just to talk, see how she is, BUT give her her space, dont call her everyday so she misses you, dont make her get tired of you nor stalk her. you also need to make her miss you. us girls pretend we are super strong and we try to make the guys beg us, but when the guy doesnt beg us, if we really like him, we go after him in the most supisious way, talk to her but not all the time, call her but not everyday, if she's with another guy, dont stare at her or she'll notice and keep doing it, pretend you dont care but then do something about it.
hope i helped...well, you never know til you try1. DO NOT TELL HER YOU ARE UPSET!!! If she knows that you get upset over her, it will make you look like you aren't confident and care WAY too much about her already.
2. Don't try and "win" her back, she isn't a prize. She will notice that you are trying too hard and you will look needy, possessivee and jealous!
Basically, she is doing what alot of smart girls do...testing you! She wants to know if you are the right guy for her, so she is doing certain things (like letting another guy put is arm around her, sleeping on his shoulder, flirting, etc) to see how how you handle the situation.
She likes you...and the way for you to let her know you are the right guy for her is by being calm and in control of your emotions, not letting the things she is doing to make a big impact on you. Here's what you should do: Flirt! Be playful around her (but not goofy) and show her that the little things aren't a big deal to you. Relax, and be confident. Tease her a little bit, and have fun with her. Make her smile by being confident and funny.
Whatever you do, don't get upset or jealous over this guy. If you do, you fail the tests she's giving you. The best way to handle this is when you and her are together, make sure she is having alot of fun with you. Remember: Confident, Playful, Funny, Relaxed and Happy. Don't get upset or make things into a big deal.You have to talk to her and tell her that you liked her and you wanted to ask her out a while ago but was too shy to and see how things go from there.well just approach her one day during lunch or right before band practice.
tell her how you feel.
It might be hard, but if you really like her you must let her know.
ask her if she likes him.
if she says no, then ask why.
tell her that i am interested in you.
then you tell her what every else you want to tell her.
hope it works out. Bro, just go after her. Besides, most teenage girls love to flirt, and from the way it sounds, that's what she's doing. But if you view him as competition, then try to get a little attention and just try to build the friendship more so it could blossom into something bigger. ;) #If you have any other info about this subject , Please add it free.# |
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